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Make it and Break it


An oft quoted adage - make it or break it.  Rhythmic expression.  Succeed or fail.  Something or
burst.  Get there or die trying.

The determined amongst us, the driven amongst us, are either making it or breaking it?. 

But there are some not only making it, but also breaking it.  Yes – Success AND Failure? Make it and Break it?

You succeed.  You get to where you were going.  You get to the goal.  And.  At the same time you fail?  Strange huh?

But I have seen it.  You are soo set on getting to your goal, overwhelmingly driven to your end.  Totally target oriented.  Fanatic.  Blinders on to everything else.  Nothing else matters.  Nothing gets in the way.  Of your goal.

And you get there.

And when you get there – the goal is finished.  You stop and savour the moment.  And keep stopped.  And savouring.  And savouring.  And nothing else.  To do.  To look forward to.  And it’s just downhill from there.  Like those old fuddy duddy civil servants put out to pasture; I hang my head at the village mung’etho post, out of touch and out of sorts and die tout de suite.  I made it and broke it.

Or – you get there and stop.  And savour the moment.  And you look for the witness.  The validation of achievement of your ambition.  Some applause.  But there is nothing.  Silence.  Empty.  The rest of my life is long gone.  My kids, my wife, my brother, the watchman, the employees.  Not interested.  And I take a tally.  What happened?  When did it happen?  What am I now?  Where am I now.  In my nirvana alone.  Tired and broke down.  Broke down body, broke down family, broke down peace, broke down relationships. 

But I made it and broke it!!  Congratulate me?

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