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Yeee!!   You are getting married.    Marriage is beautiful. You are in for a great ride!!  Exhilarating and thrilling.   Here is what I think you should know...... Marriage is an official arrangement.  That demands some bureaucratic process and hunting for certificates and signatures from various authorities.  Parking your backside on a man’s 4x6 bed and squeezing your underwear next to his in the bag hanging off the mobile wardrobe door is not a marriage. Even if you have four children.  And it does not matter what the constitution says.  Marriage happens when a man publicly stands up and says it has happened.  Until that day, you are just a woman he sexes, a woman who bears his children, but is not good enough to marry.   Before you marry, you know nothing about marriage.  You have watched marriages.  You have read about it.  You have gone for pre-mar...

My people, there are some strange folks around.   That’s a mighty fact.   Strange folks abroad. You know them.   I know you know them.   I have met a few of them in my time.   And I am sure you have too.   Strange, strange, strange.   Straaaaaaaaaaange folks abroad. That loose mouth friend that talks about you all the time behind your back.   You know it, and other people know it, but you never ever quite got the proof. The people who say the nastiest horribliest things.   Just.   For.   The.   Sake.   And feel nothing.   As you struggle for breath.    The person who knows things about you.   Many things.   Things you never knew about yourself.   You are awed by the psychic power as they fill in your memory ga(s)pses in your life. Your best friend for life, who never gets you any help.   Nada.   Never.   The one that everyone goes to for help.   T...